from the hindu

One being nice
Is not the same as one choosing to be nice , consciously, deliberately . Sometimes even putting  their own struggle aside.
The second needs so much strenghth. And is often not appreciated.
Such people, learn to look out for people.
To deliberately watch for signs.
Intentionally be there for someone, just in case.
That's the kind of nice I had come to be.
And I thought everybody nice, was the same kind of nice.
For some, it comes easy. Not by nature. But by not knowing things that aren't nice happen to them.